Outspoken … Jameela Jamil as Tahani in The Good Place. Photograph: NBC/ Getty Images
Still, blaming other women for misogyny has always felt uncomfortable- like you are doing patriarchy’s job by turning on females pressured to conform to sexism, rather than critiquing the male-dominated structures that got us here. But Jamil is surely speaking out about a side to sexism that is worth confronting. As she puts it:” I don’t care if you’re a woman. For us to evolve, we need some sort of constructive criticism .”
This is a longstanding idea, from Madeleine Albright’s” There’s a special place in hell for women who don’t help each other” to Caitlin Moran coining the word” Vichy France with tits” for women who pander to sexism to make money.
The ” double agent” concept holds being floated because these issues are not budging. Loose woman- a reveal fronted by women and aimed at females- was reported to Ofcom more than 7,000 days following an on-air row last week between Kim Woodburn and Coleen Nolan that saw Woodburn walk off in tears. Earlier in the summer, the show broadcast an “exclusive” on Maureen Nolan’s facelift, including her bloodied, bruised face post-surgery.
The social media age is making this stuff feel all the more toxic. But pitting females against girls is not limited to reality TV starrings and daytime chatshows. News sites such as Conservative Woman– which last week published an article equating the right to use abortion pills at home with flushing a baby down the toilet– perpetuate a form of gender politics every bit as injury as any Kardashian, but do so under their own sheep’s clothing: trained, middle-class white girls stimulating the occurrence for gender roles as a reasonable assault on feminism” gone too far “.
Whether it is lollipops or a keyboard, in a society where we are pressed to tear one another down, the greatest way for women to fight back is by lifting one another up.