Theres no woman on earth who hasnt frantically consulted her girlfriendsto help her figure outwhat a guy is thinking. Butthe only REALway to uncover the straight-up, honest truthisto go to the source: Men.
Bobby Box, our self-proclaimed nice guy,isan engaged 20-something fromCanada. Treez Alexander, our self-proclaimed fuckboy,is a single-and-DGAF 20-something from Brooklyn. Together, theyre here tooffer you anuncensored lookinto the male mind from two very different viewpoints to help you navigate anydating, relationship, or sex problem.
Email email@example.com with your name (orpseudonym), age, and a description of your puzzlingsituation, and you could be featured in a future column.
Hi! Im Michelle and Im 22.
I really, really like thisguy. Hes 27 and everything I like in a guy. We have so much in common.
We met around three and a half months ago. Aweek after we met, he texted me and we didnt stop talking for a whole month and a half. We talkedday andnight, sometimes til four in the morning.
Then, he started ignoring me. When that started to happen, a red flag went up in my head, so I started ignoring him, too.Except I started missing him.
Before I started a new semester, I asked himwhat was the point of saving my number if he wasnt going to ask me out. (Yes, we havent gone out on a date yet. Weve talked about it, but he doesnt make it happen.)
I told him I wasnt going to have enough time for him, and if he really wanted to go out with me, he should make it happen soon rather than later.
I just dont understand why he hasnt asked me out yet. He gives me the money excuse, or the every time I want to, something else comes up excuse.
If he wants to see me he shouldve done so already right?